Diy Divorce, Attorney Assisted Divorce and International Divorce

Divorce Papers

Drafting divorce papers may cloud your judgement not ours, this includes the Summons, Deed of Settlement, Notice of Set down and all other legal documents. Therefore, when assisting you in drafting your divorce papers with DIY divorce  or Attorney Assisted Divorce. We can assist you with the divorce process, in the most affordable and professional way.

We have different options available for you as getting divorced can be a demanding phase in your life. Therefore, you can decide which option will suite your requirements and needs. The Divorce Act will be applicable on all available options.

JC Pretorius & Associates Inc can also assists you with an International divorce if your spouse resides in a foreign country, hence we will draft all the divorce papers in accordance with all the applicable legislation and your prerequisites.

Divorce Papers

You can count on us to be available for advice and you are welcome to contact us. Hence, we are here to assist you with your divorce taking all your circumstances in consideration at all times. Therefore for a quick divorce in South Africa you can approach us, and your divorce papers will be drafted in a professional manner. We also provide legal advice on various legal matters.

Divorce Papers for a Quick Divorce in South Africa

You can draft your own Divorce papers for a quick divorce in South Africa. The drafting and the process can be difficult above all a divorce can be an emotional and life changing event. Therefore, make sure you get the best advice before proceeding filing for divorce. Hence, we can assist you drafting your divorce papers in South Africa, and you can follow the process in your own name, or we can do all for you with Attorney assisted divorce.

25.323.00 South Africans filed for divorce every year according to the latest statistics from Stats South Africa, Therefore, divorces are notorious for bringing out some of the worst squabbling between spouses.

Almost half of these divorces came from marriages that did not make it to their tenth wedding anniversary – most divorces took place after five to nine years of marriage, thus making it the average duration for SA marriages. Learn more about Family Law



DIY Divorce

Proceed with DIY divorce all divorce papers drafted by a divorce attorney. Complete online form, quick, effective and the cheapest solution. All court documents are drafted to your personal requirements no generic forms.

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Attorney Assisted Divorce

Attorney assisted, uncontested local divorce in South Africa. We will do all the work for you. Therefore,  you only have to appear in court. We will conduct your divorce in the High Court. Call on us to aasist you in finalising your divorce.

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International Divorce

If your spouse is residing in another country, we have the solution for you. All application forms complete online. We will assist you with expert advice and finalise your divorce in a professional manner. Call on us to assist you.

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Self-Help-Divorce – DIY Divorce – We will draft your divorce papers

Welcome to Self-Help-Divorce, for your DIY divorce papers in South Africa. However, JC Pretorius Attorneys can also assist you with an Attorney assisted divorce.

Divorce Papers

We use a state of the art online platform. Above all, we will provide you with a step-by-step online divorce solution to finalise your divorce in South Africa. Therefore, you can  complete forms online.

Your divorce pack. That is to say your divorce papers are drafted by an attorney from JC Pretorius & Associates Inc. As a result, your documents are unique to your situation.

We will make changes to your divorce papers if needed. As a result, without any further cost. Furthermore, we will also provide you with telephonic advice. In other words, if you need any assistance during your DIY divorce regarding the process and filing for divorce we are here to assist you.

You don’t need to pay expensive fees to attorneys. As a result, you can get the same outcome for an uncontested divorce for R950-00

Divorce Papers & Divorce Process

We will draft all your divorce papers and provide you with a step by step guide to follow in the Regional Court.

We are available for any advice you require, but you have to do all the admin yourself. Therefore called a DIY divorce, you will conduct the divorce in your own name.

Both spouses must agree on not only parting ways, but how to commence with it, and how everything will be split.


As convenient as a DIY divorce is and drafting of the divorce papers, many attorneys warn against it when there are complex issues such as the transfer of property and capital gains tax to be dealt with. It is easy to forget about financial implications of a divorce when assets are involved, through nobody’s fault reason we can assist you as divorce lawyers to conduct your own divorce and draft all your divorce papers.

We are here to assist you and provide you with the best options available and considering all aspects of the divorce act and other legislation.

What some of our clients’ say

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This application is very simple I must say compared to the other one I did.

Thank you once again for you patience and guidance, divorce is not an easy exercise


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Process in Short and divorce papers if Uncontested

Once your summons has been drafted, you must attach all the necessary documents (copies of ID documents etc.) and forms (annexure A if applicable). Then you must complete the statistics form.

After all this is done, the registrar will ‘issue’ the summons. Basically, he / she will open a court file, stamp your summons and assign a case number to your divorce. This process turns your summons into a formal Court document.

Now that your summons have been issued, you need to make at least two sets of photocopies of the entire bundle and have the summons served by the sheriff of the Court.

A sheriff is an officer of the Court. He /she is required to issue and serve the first pleading (divorce summons) in divorce proceedings on your spouse. In divorce actions, he / she has to serve the summons on your spouse in person.

Determine which sheriff needs to serve the summons on your spouse by referring to the area in which your spouse resides. A sheriff has certain service areas and will only serve pleadings in such areas.

A sheriff charges a fee for every time he tries to serve a summons on your spouse. If the summons could not be served, either because the residential address provided is incorrect or because the spouse was not present at the address, the sheriff ‘s return of service will indicate that he was unsuccessful and the reason. If this is the case, you will have to instruct the sheriff again. In the case that the summons was served successfully on your spouse, the sheriff will write a return of service indicating that he served the summons on your spouse in person.


After your spouse received your summons, he / she has 10 Court days to serve a Notice of Intention to Defend upon you before you may proceed with an unopposed divorce.

If your spouse does not serve a notice on you indicating that he wishes to defend the action and file the same notice at the Court within the 10 Court days from date that he / she received the divorce summons from the sheriff, then the Court may assume that your spouse does not wish to defend the action. Your spouse’s failure to serve and file the notice will further imply that he / she agrees to the terms set out in your divorce summons and you may ask the Court to grant an order in terms of your prayers included at the end of your divorce summons.

If your spouse does serve a Notice of Intention to Defend upon you, the matter has just become opposed and you need to seek legal counsel as soon as possible.

If you have reached a settlement through negotiation or mediation, the next step is to reduce the settlement agreement to writing and have all the parties sign it. If everything has been settled, your spouse has to serve and file a document stating that he or she withdraws his or her defence, as the matter has been settled. The divorce then becomes unopposed and can be placed on the unopposed roll.

If there are minor children involved, the family advocate will have to approve of and stamp the settlement agreement before the court will accept it.

In Court, you will ask the court to incorporate the settlement agreement into the court order. Unless the Court has some serious concerns with some aspects of the settlement agreement, the Court will incorporate the agreement into the court order, and everything you agreed to will therefore also become an order of court.

A settlement agreement should address everything that was addressed in the particulars of claim and further court documents, as well as any other matters the parties want to include. The wording can be very important later on, so it is advisable to get legal assistance with drafting the settlement agreement.


It is very important that you go to Court on the date and time given to you by the Registrar. Go early so that you have time to find out in which room your matter will be heard.

At Court the Magistrate will have a list of cases for the day so you will not necessarily be first in line. You will have to wait your turn. When your case is called, stand up and tell the Magistrate that the divorce is unopposed and tell him whether there is a settlement agreement or not. Thereafter you will take an oath or affirmation. You should provide the Court with the documents showing that and when the summons was served on your spouse personally (the sheriff’s ‘Return of Service’). Now the Magistrate will ask you questions


Start Now, we will draft your divorce papers for you to start the process and provide you with the process to follow and telephonic advice.

Attorney Assisted (Local Divorce) Uncontested 

We will draft your divorce papers and conduct your divorce


We will do all for you. Therefore, you just need to appear in court, we will conduct your divorce in the High Court. As a result, the divorce process can be completed in 8 weeks.

You complete the online application form and we can start mmediately with the drafting of the divorce papers.

We will request more information if required to start draft the Deed of Settlement. The legal documents or divorce papers will be forwarded to you to be reviewed and we will effect changes as per your instructions.The online part means that you complete a questionaire online, allowing us to ascertain whether you qualify for our services or not or to advise you on the best option available in your circumstances.

When both parties agree on the terms of the divorce, we will proceed to issue summons incorporating the deed of settlement. The Sheriff of the court will then serve the summons on the Defendant in person. We will then wait 10 days and apply for a court date.

We will then inform you of the court date and an Advocate will represent you in court.

When the order is granted we wait 14 days to get the original order from court for you.


Attorney Assisted Divorce

Easy online form to complete, we will do all the work for you. Divorce can be completed in 6 - 8 weeks.

Divorce Papers International Divorce

Edictal Citation

Edictal Citation is used. Where the Defendant lives in another country. Therefore the Plaintiff must use a process called Edictal Citation. Therefore, the Plaintiff must first approach the High Court or the Regional court by the way of an Edictal Citation Application.

This affords permission to a Plaintiff to serve the Divorce documents on a spouse in a foreign country. Hence personal service is required.

Firstly, it is important that the Court will require that the Plaintiff is domiciled in the Court’s jurisdictional area on the date that your Divorce Proceedings commence.

Secondly that you are usually resident in that area.

Further that you have been living there for not less than a period on one year immediately prior to that date.

A Summons in a Divorce must be served on the Defendant in person. Therefore, the Court needs to be satisfied that service will be done properly. Above all, by an official of the Court in a foreign country.

The process of Edictal Citation is therefore a procedure according to which a legal document. For example a Divorce Summons is served by a Sheriff (in some countries known as a “service processor” or a solicitor) in a different country.

Above all, if you have a residential or work address for the overseas spouse in the foreign country The Court will grant an order that the Summons may be served on him/her.

In conclusion, to proceed with International Divorce you are going to need attorney assisted divorce to draft all the divorce papers and assist you with the process. Most importantly, to assist you with the best way to proceed with your divorce when your spouse residing in a foreign country and get your divorce finalise as soon as possible.


Proceed now with International divorce, made easy for you.

Divorce Papers 

Divorce Process

Divorce Process

The divorce procedure in South Africa is relatively straightforward. However, the financial and emotional consequences can be profound for all parties.

Especially since the plaintiff will normally lodge the divorce in the High Court to start the divorce process. The backlog in cases was somewhat lessened. On the other hand, when the Regional Courts Amendment Act came into effect in 2010 to amend the Magistrates’ Courts Act, 1944.

So as to allow regional divisions of the magistrates’ courts to also deal with divorce cases.

Two types of divorces:

Deed of Settlement

An unopposed divorce the spouses are able to reach an agreement. Therefore, the agreement reached between the parties is reflected in a document known as a “Deed of Settlement”.

This document will set out the specific terms of the agreement reached between them. For instance, how access will work where minor children are involved and what amount of maintenance needs to be paid. Spousal maintenance will also be negotiated between the parties.

Very often the where an agreement is reached between the parties. In short, Summons will be issued with a copy of the signed Deed of settlement attached to the divorce papers. Most importantly once service of summons with the attached Deed of Settlement has taken place, which is a formality required in terms of the Rules of Court.

The matter can be set down for hearing.  Most importantly the Deed of Settlement will then be incorporated. So consequently, the deed of settlement will be an Order of Court. Therefore you will get a quick divorce

Process to follow and divorce papers

To start the divorce process the plaintiff need to issue a Summons in the High court or in the Regional Court and get a case number. Therefore, a summons must be served personally on the defendant by the sheriff of the court as it has to do with a person's status, the summons also referred to as the divorce papers.

The action starts on the date the summons is issued, after the summons has been served in person on the defendant he/she needs to gives notice of intention to defend the matter within 10 days. If the parties live in the same jurisdiction of the court or within 20 days if the defendant live in different province.

Notice of Intention to defend

After serving the notice of intention to defend the matter. Hence, the defendant must deliver a plea and must either admit, deny or avoid all the material facts alleged in the claim. However failure to plea can result in an order given against the defendant in their absence. Similarly, in default.

A court has jurisdiction in a divorce action if one or both parties are:

  • domiciled in the area of jurisdiction of the court on the date on which the action is instituted;
  • ordinarily resident in the area of jurisdiction of the court on the said date and has/have been ordinarily resident in South Africa for a period of not less than one year immediately prior to that date.

Contested Divorces and divorce papers

Divorce Papers

If a divorce is contested by the defendant it may take between 2 – 3 years. But most contested divorces do settle long before they go on trial. This process consists of various stages:

  1. pleadings;
  2. application for and set down of trial date;
  3. discovery of documents;
  4. pre-trial conference;
  5. trial;
  6. judgement.

Divorce papers and Pleadings also known as divorce documents

The formal documents or divorce papers in a divorce are referred to as pleadings. For example, include the summons, particulars of claim, notice of defence, plea, and counterclaims.

  • Summons: The divorce action starts on the date that the summons is issued.  If the defendant (the person receiving the summons) wants to dispute the plaintiff’s claim, he/she must serve a notice of appearance within 10 days (if parties live in the same jurisdiction) or 21 days (where parties live in different provinces).
  • Plea: After serving this notice of defence, the defendant must deliver a plea within 20 court days.  In the plea, the defendant must either admit/deny/confess/avoid all the material facts alleged in the particulars of claim. As a result, failure to submit this plea can result in judgement given against the defendant in their absence.
  • Counterclaim: The defendant may deliver a counterclaim against the plea.  This can be followed by a further plea to the counterclaim by the plaintiff.

Application for and set down of trial date and divorce papers needed

The plaintiff then makes an application for a trial date, allocated by the registrar. If this is not done within the prescribed number of days after the pleadings have been closed, the defendant may do so.

Discovery of divorce documents or divorce papers in the period between close of pleadings and waiting for a trial date, there is a process called discovery.  This is the where each party demands to see material the other party intends to use at trial.  This may include bank statements, shareholdings in companies, credit card statements, bond accounts and tax returns.

Pre-trial conference the court may direct that an informal conference be conducted in the presence of the judicial officer in chambers, in order to consider a settlement of disputes.

Trial proceedings commence with either parties or their legal representatives being given an opportunity to deliver an opening address, in which the court is informed of the issues that are in agreement and those that are in dispute between the parties.

Judgement A divorce trial must culminate in the granting of judgement.

Doing your own divorce. Therefore, we draft your divorce papers might be an option when:

  • your divorce is uncontested;
  • your divorce is not complicated;
  • you have been married for a short period of time;
  • you don’t have substantial assets to divide;
  • there are no disputes regarding any children; and/or;
  • you are prepared to do all the admin yourself.

Usually where children are involved or where there are substantial assets, retirement annuities or pension funds, and fix property. It is advisable to seek the assistance of an attorney with family law experience. Noteworthy to go back to court after a divorce was granted to rectify mistakes made by you or an inexperienced legal practitioner in a settlement agreement can be rather costly.

Interim relief in matrimonial matters

Rule 43 will apply whenever a spouse seeks relief from the court in respect of one or more of the following matters:

(a) Maintenance pendente lite;
(b) A contribution towards the costs of a matrimonial action, pending or about to be instituted;
(c) Interim care of any child;
(d) Interim contact with any child.

(2)(a) An applicant applying for any relief referred to in sub rule (1) shall deliver a sworn statement in the nature of a declaration, setting out the relief claimed and the grounds therefor, together with a notice to the respondent corresponding with Form 17 of the First Schedule.
(b) The statement and notice shall be signed by the applicant or the applicant's attorney and shall give an address for service within 15 kilometres of the office of the registrar, as referred to in rule 6(5)(b).
(c) The application shall be served by the sheriff: Provided that where the respondent is represented by an attorney, the application may be served on the respondent's attorney of record, other than by the sheriff.

(3)(a) The respondent shall within 10 days after receiving the application deliver a sworn reply in the nature of a plea.
(b) The reply shall be signed by the respondent or the respondent's attorney and shall give an address for service within 15 kilometres of the office of the registrar, as referred to in rule 6(5)
(c) In default of delivery of a reply referred to in paragraph (a), the respondent shall be automatically barred.

(4) As soon as possible after the expiry of the period referred to in paragraph (a) of sub rule (3), the registrar shall bring the matter before the court for summary hearing, on 10 days' notice to the parties: Provided that no notice need be given to the respondent if the respondent is in default.

(5) The court may hear such evidence as it considers necessary and may dismiss the application or make such order as it deems fit to ensurea just and expeditious decision.

(6) The court may, on the same procedure, vary its decision in the event of a material change occurring in the circumstances of either party or a child, or the contribution towards costs proving inadequate.


Every marriage out of community of property in terms of an antenuptial contract by which community of property and community of profit and loss are excluded, which is entered into after the commencement of Matrimonial Property Act 88 of 1984 , is subject to the accrual system specified in this Chapter, except in so far as that system is expressly excluded by the antenuptial contract.


At the dissolution of a marriage subject to the accrual system, by divorce or by the death of one or both of the spouses, the spouse whose estate shows no accrual or a smaller accrual than the estate of the other spouse, or his estate if he is deceased, acquires a claim against the other spouse or his estate for an amount equal to half of the difference between the accrual of the respective estates of the spouses.

Your pension benefits are protected in terms of section 37A and section 37 B of the Pension Funds Act 24 of 1956 for example against creditors, this does not form part of your estate and not part when accrual must be calulated at time of divorce or death.


Attorney Assisted Divorce

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